I've noticed there's an interesting cost in being too focused on a specific goal for yourself. On the other hand, there's also an interesting cost in not being focused enough.
I'm not talking about the clear consequences of each, that is either you achieve the goal or not. While that could be the case, there's an even more subtle struggle.
Generally speaking, if you are too focused on a specific self-oriented goal, you may become blinded and insensitive towards other people's feelings. And if you are not focused enough, then you aren't effectively helping yourself achieve your own goals.
There's a sweet spot. A most effective, charitable, to yourself and others, sweet spot.
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